Journal 2 Eric Irby

An Attractive Woman

There is no way to describe what an attractive woman is until you get to know them as a person. An attractive woman has everything to do with the way a woman feels and what she believes in. You cannot know what a woman believes until you sit and talk with them; it’s at that time that she will know if you are an attractive man.
A woman will walk somewhere and expect to be noticed by how she looks. There will be the tight jeans and the halter top shirts; there will be the switching from side to side and because of the figure alone, there will be the staring. Strike one against the so called attractive man.
Women want the respect they deserve. A woman may want to sit down and have a conversation with you. A woman may want to get to know you. If all you see in the woman is a good time, then you deserve to go home alone; and that’s a definite strike two against the so called attractive man.
A woman may have goals in life, and plan to achieve those goals. A woman may want to see what goals you have in life and see if you are going to achieve them as well. Just because it’s the weekend and can let loose a bit, does not mean you can let loose of your goals “AND” achievements. Your life has to follow you whether good or bad, it’s up to you to keep it good.
As for the so called attractive man who was looking at the woman through the eyes and not through the soul, strike three; you’re out. A woman who has the heart and mind for an attractive man will know it because of the mutual respect that he has for her. That’s attraction that cannot be denied or lost.

Eric Irby